This page is safety advice for using Tinder; it says you can't control others but can take steps to stay safer
The page is Tinder's list of safety tips. It is written as advice to you: be cautious with people you don't know, use your best judgment and put your safety first, from the first message through meeting in person. Tinder says you can't control what other people do, but there are things you can do to help stay safe. The tips describe precautions for you to take; they are not framed as Tinder promising to keep you safe.
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Safety tips
you should always be cautious when interacting with someone you don’t know
Use your best judgment and put your safety first, whether you’re sending your first message or meeting in-person.
While you can’t control the actions of others, there are things you can do to help stay safe during your Tinder experience.
Qualifications & exceptions
The tips are phrased as recommendations ("you should", "Use your best judgment"), not as contract terms.
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The page does not say whether any tip is binding or how it relates to Tinder's Terms of Use or Community Guidelines, which are not supplied here.
Security & Safeguards · Context
Don't share your SSN, home or work address or daily routine; parents should limit details about their children
Tinder advises you never to share personal information with people you don't know, giving as examples your social security number, your home or work address, and details of your daily routine such as going to a certain gym every Monday. If you are a parent, it advises limiting what you share about your children on your profile and in early communications, and avoiding details such as images of your children, their names, where they go to school, or their ages or genders.
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Never share personal information, such as your social security number, home or work address, or details about your daily routine (for example, that you go to a certain gym every Monday) with people you don’t know.
If you’re a parent, limit the information that you share about your children on your profile and in early communications.
Avoid sharing details such as images of your children, their names, where they go to school, or their ages or genders.
Qualifications & exceptions
The listed items are examples ("such as"), not a complete list.
The advice is about people you don't know; the children advice covers your profile and early communications.
Security & Safeguards · Company practice
Exchanges on Tinder are subject to its Trust & Safety detections; Tinder advises keeping conversations on the app
Tinder says exchanges on Tinder are subject to its Trust & Safety detections, and for that reason advises keeping conversations on the Tinder platform while you are getting to know someone. It warns that users with bad intentions often try to move the conversation to text, messaging apps, email or phone right away.
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Keep conversations on the Tinder platform while you’re getting to know someone.
Because exchanges on Tinder are subject to our Trust & Safety detections, users with bad intentions often try to move the conversation to text, messaging apps, email, or phone right away.
Qualifications & exceptions
The advice applies while you are getting to know someone.
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The page does not describe what the Trust & Safety detections examine, whether they are automated, or what happens when they flag something.
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Red flags: matches stuck overseas asking for help, pushing investments, avoiding calls or meetings
Tinder advises watching for scammers who claim to be from your country but stuck somewhere else, especially if they ask for financial help to get home, and not letting a match talk you into investing or opening an account with a service or website they share. It advises being wary of anyone who won't meet in person or talk on a phone or video call, since they may not be who they say they are. Someone who avoids your questions or pushes for a serious relationship without meeting or getting to know you first is described as a red flag.
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Watch out for scammers who claim to be from your country but stuck somewhere else, especially if they ask for financial help to return home.
Don’t let a match talk you into investing or opening an account with a service or website they share.
Be wary of anyone who will not meet in person or talk on a phone/video call—they may not be who they say they are.
If someone is avoiding your questions or pushing for a serious relationship without meeting or getting to know you first, that’s a red flag.
Security & Safeguards · Context
Take your time before meeting or moving off Tinder; a phone or video call can help screen a match
Tinder advises taking your time to get to know the other person before agreeing to meet or to chat off Tinder, and asking questions to screen for red flags or your personal dealbreakers. It suggests a phone or video call as a useful screening step before meeting.
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Take your time and get to know the other person before agreeing to meet or chat off-Tinder.
Don’t be afraid to ask questions to screen for any red flags or personal dealbreakers.
A phone or video call can be a useful screening tool before meeting.
Qualifications & exceptions
The call is described as "a useful screening tool", a suggestion rather than a requirement.
Security & Safeguards · Context
Meet in a busy public place, never a private home; end the date if pressured to go somewhere private
Tinder advises meeting in a populated, public place and staying there, never at your home, your date's home or any other private location. If your date pressures you to go to a private location, it advises ending the date.
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Meet in a populated, public place — never at your home, your date’s home, or any other private location.
If your date pressures you to go to a private location, end the date.
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"Never" covers your home, your date's home and any other private location.
Security & Safeguards · Context
Tell a friend or family member when and where you're going, keep your phone charged, consider sharing your location
Tinder advises telling a friend or family member your plans, including when and where you are going, and keeping your cell phone charged and with you at all times. It suggests considering your phone's built-in features to share your location with someone you trust while you are on a date.
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Tell a friend or family member of your plans, including when and where you’re going.
Have your cell phone charged and with you at all times.
Consider using your phone’s built-in features to share your location with someone you trust while you’re out on a date.
Qualifications & exceptions
Location sharing is something to "consider", using your phone's own features, with someone you trust.
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The page does not say Tinder itself offers a location-sharing feature; it points to your phone's built-in features.
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Control your own way to and from the date so you can leave whenever you want
Tinder wants you to control how you get to and from your date so that you can leave whenever you want. If you are driving yourself, it suggests having a backup plan, such as a ride-share app or a friend who can pick you up.
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We want you to be in control of how you get to and from your date so that you can leave whenever you want.
If you’re driving yourself, it’s a good idea to have a backup plan such as a ride-share app or a friend to pick you up.
Qualifications & exceptions
The backup-plan suggestion is for when you drive yourself.
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Know how drugs or alcohol affect you; end the date if pressured to use or drink more
Tinder advises being aware of how drugs or alcohol affect you specifically, since they can impair your judgment and alertness. If your date tries to pressure you to use drugs or drink more than you are comfortable with, it advises holding your ground and ending the date.
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Be aware of the effects of drugs or alcohol on you specifically — they can impair your judgment and your alertness.
If your date tries to pressure you to use drugs or drink more than you’re comfortable with, hold your ground and end the date.
Security & Safeguards · Context
Only accept drinks served directly by the bartender or server; keep your drink and belongings with you
Tinder advises knowing where your drink comes from and where it is at all times, and only accepting drinks poured or served directly by the bartender or server. It notes that many substances slipped into drinks to facilitate sexual assault are odorless, colorless and tasteless. It also advises keeping your phone, purse, wallet and anything containing personal information on you at all times.
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Know where your drink comes from and know where it is at all times — only accept drinks poured or served directly from the bartender or server.
Many substances that are slipped into drinks to facilitate sexual assault are odorless, colorless, and tasteless.
Also, keep your phone, purse, wallet, and anything containing personal information on you at all times.
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Ending a date early when uncomfortable is encouraged; ask the bartender or server for help if you feel unsafe
Tinder says it is okay, and encouraged, to end a date early if you feel uncomfortable. If your instincts tell you something is off or you feel unsafe, it advises asking the bartender or server for help.
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It’s okay to end the date early if you’re feeling uncomfortable. In fact, it’s encouraged.
And if your instincts are telling you something is off or you feel unsafe, ask the bartender or server for help.
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Condoms reduce but don't remove STI risk; some STIs spread by skin contact and some can be prevented by vaccination
Tinder says that condoms, used correctly and consistently, can significantly reduce the risk of getting and passing on STIs like HIV, but warns that STIs like herpes or HPV can be passed on through skin-to-skin contact. It says the risk of some STIs can be reduced through vaccination and links to an outside resource that is not supplied here.
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When used correctly and consistently, condoms can significantly reduce the risk of contracting and passing on STI’s like HIV.
But, be aware of STIs like herpes or HPV that can be passed on through skin-to-skin contact.
The risk of contracting some STIs can be reduced through
Qualifications & exceptions
The condom statement applies "When used correctly and consistently" and describes reduced, not eliminated, risk.
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The linked vaccination resource is not part of this source.
Security & Safeguards · Context
Get tested regularly since not all STIs show symptoms; the linked clinic finder is US only
Tinder notes that not all STIs show symptoms and advises getting tested regularly to stay on top of your health and prevent the spread of STIs. It links to a clinic finder that it marks as US only; that resource is not supplied here.
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Not all STIs show symptoms, and you don’t want to be in the dark about your status.
Stay on top of your health and prevent the spread of STIs by getting tested regularly.
(US only)
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The clinic-finder link is marked "(US only)".
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The linked clinic finder is not part of this source.
Security & Safeguards · Context
Talk about sexual health and STI testing before getting intimate; knowingly passing on an STI is a crime in some places
Tinder advises talking with a partner about sexual health and STI testing before you get physically intimate. It warns that in some places it is a crime to knowingly pass on an STI. It links to conversation tips from an outside resource that is not supplied here.
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Before you get physically intimate with a partner, talk about sexual health and STI testing.
And be aware — in some places, it’s actually a crime to knowingly pass on an STI.
Qualifications & exceptions
The criminal-law warning applies "in some places" and to knowingly passing on an STI; the page does not name where.
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The page does not say which places criminalize this; the linked conversation tips are not supplied.
Security & Safeguards · Restriction or exception
Sexual activity must start with consent, which can be withdrawn at any time; don't proceed if a partner can't consent
Tinder states that all sexual activity must start with consent and should include ongoing check-ins with your partner. Consent can be withdrawn at any time, and sex is never owed to anyone. Do not proceed if your partner seems uncomfortable or unsure, or if they are unable to consent because of drugs or alcohol. The page links to outside reading on what consent looks like, which is not supplied here.
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All sexual activity must start with consent and should include ongoing check-ins with your partner.
Consent can be withdrawn at any time, and sex is never owed to anyone.
Do not proceed if your partner seems uncomfortable or unsure, or if your partner is unable to consent due to the effects of drugs or alcohol.
Verbal communication can help you and your partner ensure that you respect each other’s boundaries.
Qualifications & exceptions
Consent "must" start sexual activity; ongoing check-ins "should" be included.
Not proceeding covers a partner who seems uncomfortable or unsure, as well as one unable to consent due to drugs or alcohol.
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The linked outside reading on consent is not part of this source.